When I was 14 ... for some reason, I'd unreasonably ask my parents to give me an apartment. I wanted to live on my own, earn on my own, eat on my own, pretty much be an adult.
I didn't know much about being an adult, heck I don't even know anything now about being an adult, even though I'm working, have my own car, more importantly am married and have a beautiful baby-boy. I guess it's every kids dream to be an adult, only to realize that when you become one ... you either want to be a kid again, away from all these tiny issues, ranging from phone bills to the vaccinations of your kid or you never actually become an adult.
But this is not the sole purpose of todays post, todays post really, is dedicated to my wifes and my dream, of leaving dubai for good, and starting a new life somewhere else in the world. There are a few destinations we are looking into; Australia, Canada, United States, Europe or maybe even Phillipines. But it's risky, a gamble, especially now that we have Karsten, we need to assure a safe ground for our child.
We have been contemplating on finding jobs, housing, see how life on the other side might be like, but we quickly realized that it's not as easy as it may sound. How's life over there? We'd actually have to go there. Housing? We'd actually have to go there! Job? Woha! They don't offer you jobs in the US, when you're not there as an expatriate unless you know something they don't. And that's usually not the case!
Let's face it! There's no safe way of doing this! So I'm guessing, we'd have to gamble. But is that really a good idea!? I mean we're not Emiratis, who can just come back "home" to dubai to our parents if shit goes down the drain. We have to quit our jobs here, get rid of almost everything and leave. Including cancelling our residence visas! Which is not the cleverest thing to do!
Time and time again, I have proven to myself however, that if you really want something, you can do it! And I really want this! So... I know, I can do this! So for now, we'll go and travel to the places we're thinking of taking our lives to... let's see what we find!
Until next time, Game on!
-Alex